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Come to the Quiet

8/27/2025

 
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Life is full of noise. We find ourselves scrolling constantly. Work doesn’t stop. The headlines don’t pause. The pressure to perform—to fix, to manage, to hold it all together—runs deep.

And yet...God is not in a hurry. And the Holy Spirit often whispers, not shouts. As some of you have heard, this fall, we’re creating space to return to the stillness of our Creator.

Beginning in September, we’re launching a weekly Evening of Contemplative Practice here at St. Paul Congregational UCC. Every Thursday night at 7pm, we’ll gather—not to be entertained or instructed, but simply to be. To breathe. To rest in sacred quiet. To listen inwardly and together.

Some weeks we’ll sing simple songs. Some weeks we’ll sit in silence. Some weeks we’ll pray with breath or body or scripture. It’s mostly lay-led, soft-lit, and spacious. You don’t need to know anything. You don’t need to have words. You don't need to get yourself all dolled up to come. You just need to show up.

The natural next question might be:  Why Thursday night? Why not just stick to Sunday morning? It’s a fair question. After all, we’re a small church. Do we really need another thing? But this isn’t just another thing. It’s another way.

At St. Paul Congregational UCC, we believe worship should be relevant to all ages—and all spiritual temperaments. And we know Sunday mornings don’t meet every spiritual need.
Some of us can't make it some Sunday mornings, but still long for community and connection to something larger than ourselves. Some of us have been hurt by the Church, and Sunday mornings feel overwhelming. Some of us crave a slower pace. A quieter room. A space where there’s no sermon, no singing unless we feel like it, no pressure to be “on.” Just stillness. Just Spirit. Just presence.

Thursday evenings create a different kind of container—one where we can breathe deeply at the end of a long day, where seekers and skeptics and the spiritually weary can come without needing to perform or conform. It’s not a replacement for Sunday. It’s a complement. It’s a new rhythm that makes more room. And truthfully? Sometimes, the sacred shows up most clearly when we step outside our usual routine.

This rhythm grows out of our commitment not only to deepen our spiritual lives, but to ground our work for justice in prayerful presence. The United Church of Christ reminds us that contemplative practice isn’t an escape—it’s an anchor. The world doesn’t need more burned-out activists or cynical believers. It needs rooted people. Rested people. People who can pause long enough to hear the still, small voice of God amid the noise.

So if you're exhausted, curious, seeking, or simply ready for a different kind of spiritual rhythm…come to the quiet starting this September. You belong.

Entering the quiet with you,
Pr. Melissa


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    Rev. Melissa Sternhagen

    Rev. Melissa Sternhagen was called as the pastor of St. Paul Congregational UCC in June of 2020. Prior to her call to St. Paul, Pr. Melissa worked as a hospice chaplain in the Ames, IA area, following pastorates at rural churches in Central Iowa and Southern Illinois. Pr. Melissa is a second-career pastor with a background in agribusiness and production & supply operations. She received her M.Div. from Eden Theological Seminary in St. Louis, MO, and holds a MA Ed. in Adult Education and Training, and a BA in Organizational Communications. 

    Pr. Melissa is a passionate advocate for social justice. She has marched and advocated for LGBTQ+ equality, reproductive justice, justice and equality for the communities of Black, Indigenous, and People of Color. She has also spoken at rallies for DACA, to end police violence against Black people, to end violence against the Trans* community, and to end gun violence. 

    An Iowa native, Pr. Melissa enjoys being outside at all times of the year, gardening, tinkering in the garage, walking, hiking, kayaking, lying in her hammock, removing snow, repurposing old/found objects, and tackling projects she saw on YouTube that she was "sure" she could do. Pr. Melissa shares a home with her spouse, their two dogs, and SO MANY plants. 

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