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The Letter We Quote—and the Letter We Forget

1/21/2026

 
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This week, as we marked Martin Luther King Jr. Day, it’s worth remembering something that often gets left out of the story: King’s famous Letter from Birmingham Jail was not written in a vacuum.

It was a response.

King was answering a public letter from white religious leaders who urged him to slow down, be patient, and trust the process. They weren’t cartoon villains. They were clergy. Moderates. People who claimed to support justice—just not this way, not this fast, not this disruptively.

King’s letter is often quoted as a general call for unity or love. But it is, more precisely, a refusal. A refusal to accept delay as virtue. A refusal to confuse order with justice. A refusal to let “good intentions” excuse inaction.

Looking back matters right now. Not because history gives us easy answers—but because it reminds us that moments of deep tension are not new, and that calls for calm, civility, and patience have often been tools used to maintain the status quo–during segregation, during the AIDS crisis, in the fall of Roe v. Wade, and in the ongoing displacement and erasure of Indigenous peoples—each time marked by urgent pleas to slow down for the sake of order.

King didn’t write from comfort. He wrote from confinement. And he wrote because people of faith had told him he was pushing too hard, for too much, too fast.

As we try to find our footing in these times, revisiting this exchange—the letter and the response—helps us ask a harder, more honest question: Are we more invested in peace, or in justice?

(Links to both letters included below.)

On the journey with you,
Pr. Melissa

A Call for Unity (White clergy letter)
A Letter from Birmingham Jail


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    Rev. Melissa Sternhagen

    Rev. Melissa Sternhagen was called as the pastor of St. Paul Congregational UCC in June of 2020. Prior to her call to St. Paul, Pr. Melissa worked as a hospice chaplain in the Ames, IA area, following pastorates at rural churches in Central Iowa and Southern Illinois. Pr. Melissa is a second-career pastor with a background in agribusiness and production & supply operations. She received her M.Div. from Eden Theological Seminary in St. Louis, MO, and holds a MA Ed. in Adult Education and Training, and a BA in Organizational Communications. 

    Pr. Melissa is a passionate advocate for social justice. She has marched and advocated for LGBTQ+ equality, reproductive justice, justice and equality for the communities of Black, Indigenous, and People of Color. She has also spoken at rallies for DACA, to end police violence against Black people, to end violence against the Trans* community, and to end gun violence. 

    An Iowa native, Pr. Melissa enjoys being outside at all times of the year, gardening, tinkering in the garage, walking, hiking, kayaking, lying in her hammock, removing snow, repurposing old/found objects, and tackling projects she saw on YouTube that she was "sure" she could do. Pr. Melissa shares a home with her spouse, their two dogs, and SO MANY plants. 

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